What to Do About Rumors, Taunts and Bullies

Gr 4—7—An adolescent blogger talks to viewers about the problems caused by gossip, teasing, and bullying. In a series of brief live-action vignettes featuring ethnically diverse boys and girls facing real-life situation, viewers see what happens when a rumor is spread, when name-calling gets out of hand, and when bullying causes pain. They are taught specific techniques for dealing with the problems. Viewers are urged to combat rumors with the truth. They are also encouraged to ignore teasers, thereby taking away the reaction they desire. Speaking out and telling someone to stop inappropriate behavior is advised, which includes standing up for yourself and for others. Confrontation by a group is often preferable. The most important element is doing the right thing. The focus is on children solving the problems themselves, which is good. However, most school-wide bullying programs include informing an adult, and that should have been a bigger element here. Silence always benefits the bully, not the victim. This program offers valuable coping skills and would be useful as a classroom discussion starter.—Teresa Bateman. Brigadoon Elementary School. Federal Way, WA