The Boys' Guide to Growing Up: Choices & Changes During Puberty

Gr 4 Up—All teens should be knowledgeable about the hormonal onslaught that pumps through their bodies, transforming their looks and affecting their moods. This book is geared to boys with "developmental disabilities." It explains basic information that includes body changes in growth, hair, skin, voice, and feelings. It is not a sex guide though it does not shy away from emerging sexuality. The simple language is deliberately clear and direct, enhanced by several black-and-white anatomical illustrations. Probably the most essential message is that children and young adults need to be aware of inappropriate physical contact and not become victims. Special-needs children and teens are particularly vulnerable due to their dependency on others. An important section is "Public or Private," which differentiates between what is appropriate and understanding what is not. While this is an important resource for parent, caregivers, and pre-pubescent and pubescent boys, there are some weak spots. The author's use of slang to keep the text familiar and approachable makes the book immediately dated. She refers to couples as "sweethearts," and makes comments like, "Shaving the hair on your face can help you look clean." Yes, but not shaving may make you look movie-star cool, and this side of teen attitude is ignored. The frequent use of exclamation marks becomes annoying. All in all, though, this volume will come in handy in addressing a subject area that is frequently avoided.—Alison Follos, formerly at North Country School, Lake Placid, NY